Scapegoats for gay pastors

Their wives!

Most pastors...do not have satisfying, free, sexual conversations and liberties with their wives....It is not uncommon to meet pastors’ wives who really let themselves go; they sometimes feel that because their husband is a pastor, he is therefore trapped into fidelity, which gives them cause for laziness. A wife who lets herself go and is not sexually available to her husband in the ways that the Song of Songs is so frank about is not responsible for her husband’s sin, but she may not be helping him either.

Anything to get around the fact that someone is gay, and they couldn't change it no matter how hard they tried. It's nature, not nurture.